May We Be Forgiven

This sad and comical novel takes place in one year. Beginning on Thanksgiving and ending on Thanksgiving, May We Be Forgiven is a tale about a family implosion. The author is A.M. Homes. The story is about two brothers and their families. George is the older, more charismatic, more successful brother with a forceful temper. Harry is younger. He teaches college and is writing a book about Richard Milhouse Nixon. He is a big Nixon fan. On Thanksgiving George murders his wife. This leaves Harry with the job of raising two teenagers, taking care of a dog and a cat, and living in George's home. Harry also has to take care of George's legal defense, his psychiatric treatment, and the care of their parents. By the next Thanksgiving, after many trials and tribulations, small mistakes and big mistakes, the family joins together again on Thanksgiving. They reunite as a family of choice instead of a family of blood. They are scarred, healed, and healthier now. I loved the story. My only complaint was the number of paragraphs describing sexual relations. What I mean to say there was too much sex.

 

  

What Happened To Security Questions

Last week my laptop fizzled out. I could not turn it on. So I bought another laptop. To sign in to my email I needed the password. I could not remember the password. I had it sent to my other email. I couldn't remember that password either. I tried and tried. I ended up contacting Yahoo mail. I answered all their questions. I sent a picture of the front and back of my driving license. I still could not get in. The woman suggested I wait 24 hours and try again. I tried again tonight and I got into both my emails. What happened to the security questions I answered? What street did you grow up on? What was the name of your first pet. In which hospital were you born? Why did we decide not to use security questions anymore. Anyway, I think I solved my problem. I forwarded one of my email passwords to my phone email so I should be good from here on out. What a hassle! 

Mansion Beach

Mansion Beach is a fiction novel set in current times on Block Island, Rhode Island. A young woman from Minnesota, her name is Nicola, goes there to work at a seal sanctuary. Her cousin from Minnesota, more like a brother than a cousin, David, lives during the summer on Block Island. His wife, Taylor, is wealthy. Taylor's family has a small cottage that they are letting Nicola stay at no charge. Nicola doesn't have much and gets around the island on her bicycle. Next door to Nicola's cabin lives Julianne George. She is a wealthy owner of a high tech fashion start-up. Her goal, in moving to Block Island, is a nefarious one. Nicola and Julianne become close friends. The book is basically about friendship; friendship between cousins and neighbors. 

 

 

Moths

 Today I attended a lecture about moths in Minnesota. Moths outnumber butterflies by a margin of 10 to 1 but butterflies get most of the attention. Most, but not all, moths fly only at night. Light can affect their travels. Like a moth to a flame, moths are attracted to out door lights that look yellow or orange. They are not attracted to the white light of a LED bulb. Male moths have fanned out antennae that are larger than the female antennae. That is because the males can smell or sense a female moth from seven miles away. The female moth's antennae are smaller and not fanned out. Females don't go looking for males. Instead, they just wait for the males to arrive. Female moths can carry one hundred eggs. When  laying eggs the female will lay all her eggs in one spot. After hatching from an egg, they will eat and grow. Moths will shed their exoskeleton 6 or 7 times until they are ready to form a cocoon. They eat so much as caterpillars that once they shed their cocoon they don't eat anymore. Moths don't have mouth parts. Moths live as moths for about a week. They live as caterpillars for two and a half months. Here in Winona County, in an effort to eradicate the spongy moth infestation, planes have been spraying pheromones that disrupt the males from finding the females. This pheromone affects all moths and butterflies and not just the spongy moth. So is it a good idea to spray the confusing pheromone? If we let spongy moths proliferate and there are no leaves on trees for the native moths to eat, well, that wouldn't be good either. Our speaker is an amateur entomologist and nature photographer. He spoke about three species of moths. One is the green luna moth which is my favorite because it is so pretty and green. I once saw one in the hull of a boat in the morning. The aluminum boat was pulled up on the shore of Rush Lake near New York Mills. Another moth he talked about is the crecopia moth which is beautiful with red spots. This last May I spotted a crecopia moth cocoon on a branch at the arboretum at Gustavus Adolphus in Saint Peter. The last moth he talked about is the polyphemus moth which is yellow in color. In closing he advised us not to rake up all our leaves in the fall. The crecopia moth will attach it's cocoon to a branch. The luna moth and the polyphemus moths attach their cocoons to leaves. If you rake and bag all your leaves you are harming the moth population. Now I feel bad about all those leaves I mulched with my mower and set in my compost piles.

 

 

Son Of Nobody

 Yann Martel is the author of  The Life of Pi which is a book I really loved. This time I borrowed an audio book called Son Of Nobody. I was disappointed. I couldn't even finish it. The story is about the Trojan War. One side of the story is told by a goat herder's son at the time of the war. The other is told by a scholar in current times as he reads manuscripts about the war. After listening to stories from The Iliad and The Odyssey for 5 hours, listening to people getting killed with swards and javelins, I just couldn't take it anymore.

 

 

The Patience Stone

Never in my life have I read a book like The Patience Stone by Atiq Rahimi (translated into English by Polly McLean. The story takes place during a week in Afghanistan. A woman is in her quarters with her husband who is in a coma and has a bullet in his brain.  He is part of the Taliban. She has sent her two daughters to her aunt's house in a safer part of the city. Every night there are gun shots and tanks traveling by. The woman takes care of her husband. She puts eye drops in his eyes so they don't dry out. She mixes a concoction of sugar, salt, and water and feeds her husband through a tube going down his nose. She washes his body and keeps him clean. She goes out only just before curfew to see her daughters. During this week she is finally able to talk freely to her husband. He cannot respond to her thoughts. Her husband, when he was around, mistreated her. During their ten years of marriage they have only been together for three. He was away at war for the other seven years. This is a short but extremely powerful book.

 

 

Happy 4th of July

I remember the 4th of July in 1976. I was living in Saint Cloud, going to school, and working at the Saint Cloud Manor home. The home was located just a short walk through the woods to the prison. This prison had high thick walls and is the largest wall after the great wall of China. One of my patients in this home was 104 years old. As I took care of her I asked if she remembered the Centennial in 1876. She nodded that she did remember it but she was unable to say much more about it. She was a nice lady and I was happy to work with her. Later that night the fireworks were set off. One lady with a German accent cried out from  her bed saying, "The bombs! The bombs!" I tried to comfort her. I tried to explain fireworks but she wasn't having any of it. She was so scared. The 4th of July isn't to everyone's taste.