I found Three Women by Lisa Taddeo to be tasteless and a little boring. This book gives the true stories of three women's sex lives. Ten years of research went into telling the story of Lina, Sloane, and Maggie. Lina is in a dull marriage. She has tried counseling. She has tried talking to her doctor. She begs her husband to be romantic but he just won't. She gets divorced and has an affair with an old boyfriend. Sloane is happily married and they own a successful restaurant together. Sloane and her husband enjoy having sexual relations with various third parties. She feels guilty about this. Finally there is Maggie, the saddest story of all. Maggie was 17 and a junior at a high school in Fargo, North Dakota when she was groomed for sex by her 36 year old male English teacher. He also coached her debate team. He seduces her. They spend hours on the phone together. She comes to his house when his wife is away and his two young boys are asleep. He toys with her emotions. They have inappropriate encounters in his office during the school day. When his wife finds his phone and sees her text message, he calls off the relationship. Maggie is devastated. She has panic attacks and anxiety. She goes to college but can't handle it because of her mental health so she drops out. She turns to drugs and alcohol and psychotherapy for relief. She takes four kinds of mood stabilizers. Three years after their relationship is over he is voted teacher of the year. She decides to finally report to the police. An investigation ensues. At the trial she tells the truth. For emotional support she brings the scapula of her recently deceased father for emotional support. In response he carries a rosary. He lies on the stand. His wife lies for him. The other teachers lie for him. Even some of Maggie's friends lie for him. Few people believe Maggie and he is acquitted. These three sad stories about three white women make up the entire book. I wish I hadn't wasted my time finishing it.
Monday, May 31, 2021
Sunday, May 30, 2021
Wild Flower Hike
This is sarsaparilla. The white blossoms look like a round firework display and the leaves above are bronzed. |
We are still walking down the gravel road away from the center toward the road. This is a columbine, one of the few spring flowers that are red. |
We left the road and are hiking on a poorly maintained show shoe path. The walking is difficult. This is a nodding trillium. There is a blue jay that keeps yelling at us for some reason. |
I thought he said this was a nodding lady slipper but I must have got that wrong. Maybe it's a pink lady slipper that hasn't turned pink yet. |
This is bellwort. We also saw lots of flowers on blueberry bushes, service berries which are the same as June berries, strawberries and chokecherries. |
Our walk was supposed to be 90 minutes but we were out there over 100 minutes. On my way back to my car I stopped to take a picture of these painted turtles. |
Saturday, May 29, 2021
Lupine
Lupine are starting to open. I went on a six mile walk today. On my way there I didn't see any lupine. On my way back I see them in four places. How did I miss them? |
Friday, May 28, 2021
Funny, You Don't Look Autistic
Michael McCreavy was so entertaining in his book, Funny, You Don't Look Autistic: A Comedienne's Guide To Life On The Spectrum, that I could not put it down. I read the whole book in one day. Michael talks about his life growing up in Ontario with a neurotypical older brother and a younger brother who is also on the spectrum. He had loving parents who accepted their three sons and helped guide them through their lives and encouraged their passions. He wrote about how he dealt with bullies at school. He said taking improv classes did more to improve his social skills than any of the social skills classes he took in school. Although I think he is too young (22) to write an autobiography, he did a great job of it.
North East Wind
When a wave came in just right water would pop 20 feet into the air along this corrugated iron sea wall and spray me in the face. A rainbow would briefly appear on the way down. |
Watching waves roll in is captivating for me. |
Thursday, May 27, 2021
Laughing Boy
I read another Pulitzer Prize winning novel. Laughing Boy by Oliver La Farge won the prize in 1930. This story is about the Navajo nation in 1914. Laughing Boy is a young man who has been accepted in his tribe as a man. He has talents in horse racing and making jewelry with silver and turquoise. He is at a communal dance when he meets Slender Girl. They fall in love. They go to Slender Girl's house which is near a town and are married. Slender Girl works for a preacher in the town while Laughing Boys tends his horses and makes jewelry. He builds her a loom and she begins to weave blankets. She struggles with her weaving at first but with his help her work on the loom improves. Slender Girl has issues because she was taken from her family at a young age and sent to a Christian boarding school. She was forced to give up the native ways. In a series of bad luck events she knew she had to return to the native ways and Laughing Boy helps her do that. Laughing Boy is a philosophical man. I enjoyed reading about this young loving couple and the joys and sorrows of their relationship.
Wednesday, May 26, 2021
The Answer Is
Alex Trebec was never going to write a book about himself. But after the outpouring of good will after he announced he had Stage IV pancreatic cancer, he changed his mind and wrote The Answer Is . . . Reflections on My Life. He does tell his whole story from his childhood in a mining town in Ontario where his father worked at a hotel kitchen. He talked about getting into trouble in school. He joined the Canadian military but refused to get a hair cut so he was in the military for only two days. He talked about college and working as a radio announcer. He talked about his mother and his sister and his father. He talked about his good fortune in the game show business and eventually emigrating to California where he met his two wives and eventually had two kids of his own. Although he doesn't smoke or drink very much, he found that his chasteness was off putting so he took up swearing to balance things out. He sounds like a very nice, humble man. He loves to travel and when he does he thinks up new clues for the show. He even writes about some of the contestants on the show. I enjoyed reading his story.
Tuesday, May 25, 2021
A Visit From The Good Squad
I didn't know A Visit From The Goon Squad by Jennifer Egan won the 2010 Pulitzer Prize for fiction before I read it. Frankly that surprised me. I thought it was a good book but not that good. What do I know? This book had a ton of characters. In thirteen chapters, some of those characters came back and others didn't. One chapter was done entirely in power point and was done from the perspective of Allison, the daughter of Sasha and Drew and brother to Linc. Linc has Autism and they all live in a house out on the edge of a desert. Allison lays out in slide format the differences between her Mom and her Dad. One slide lays out what her parents are most likely to say if she does something. Another slide lays out the details of Linc's obsession with pauses in rock songs. This is a really odd yet revealing way to get to know a family. Benny Salazar is one of the main characters in the story. He is a music producer. Many of the characters are either in the rock and roll industry or the advertising industry. Some stories take place in San Francisco, New York, Arizona, Italy or Kenya. This book is all over the place. The timing of the stories is from the 1970's to the near future. Most of the characters do some extremely wild things in their youth but grow up, settle down, and are more mainstream. Although I can't decide if it is a collection of short stories or a novel, I did enjoy reading it.
Traveling Wood Tick
Monday, May 24, 2021
An Elderly Lady Is Up To No Good
This book was short but oh, so funny. An Elderly Lady Is Up To No Good was written by Helene Tursten and translated from Norwegian to English by Marlaine Delargy. The story is set in Oslo when an elderly lady has an apartment free from rent in a large apartment building. This rent free deal was made when her father died which was 60 years ago. No one thought she would stay in the apartment this long. At first she lived with her mother and her older sister. She supported them by working. When they both died she took in boarders for many years saving her money to have enough to live on in her retirement years. She has enough money to not only get by but to travel the world. She does love to travel. Now she is 88 years old. She has no family and no friends. She is smart and creative and devious and she lives her life to the fullest. Normally I don't like crime books but I liked this one.
Sunday, May 23, 2021
Disappearing Moon Cafe
In this historical fiction novel, Disappearing Moon Café, Sky Lee writes about five generations of Chinese Canadians living in Vancouver, British Columbia. The original immigrant was hired by an organization in China to return the bones of Chinese railroad workers who died on the job. He looks for graves sites and collects the bones so they can be transported back to China as is the custom in their faith. He marries a First Nation girl who was brought up by her Chinese step-father. Their son works at the Disappearing Moon Café in Vancouver. From there the story continues highlighting the struggles for Chinese Canadian men and women within their own families and with the community. Some of these families keep some dark secrets and the results would not have been as terrible if the secrets were made public. Some of the parents were unbelievably controlling in regard to their child's choice of a spouse and whether the new couple had offspring. I thought this was an interesting story but it was hard to keep track of the characters as the novel jumped back and forth in time.
Saturday, May 22, 2021
Hidden Valley Road
I was talking with a psychiatrist once and he told me that, in his opinion, the worst mental illness to have is schizophrenia because medication doesn't help very much. The other mental illness have drugs to alleviate the symptoms. So when I read Hidden Valley Road: Inside the Mind Of An American Family by Robert Kolker, I knew I would be reading a tragic tale. The author got his information from Lindsey and Margaret who are the two youngest and only female offspring of Don and Mimi Galvin. Don and Mimi had twelve children. Twelve! Ten of the children were boys. Six of the boys were diagnosed with schizophrenia and/or bi-polar disorder. The mental illness had an incredible impact on everyone in the family. Don worked in the Air Force and the family settled in Colorado. They took up falconry. The family went to church every Sunday with the boys wearing suits and ties and the girls wearing dresses. From the outside they looked like a successful family but that was far from the case. Most of the boys showed symptoms when they were 19 or 20. Some showed symptoms earlier. These children were born between 1945 and 1965. The stigma of mental illness, although bad now, was worse then. Psychiatrists didn't agree on treatment. Some experts blamed the mother. Mimi wasn't having any of that. She kept pushing doctors to do better to the extent that some felt she cared more for her sick children than her healthy children. The thing about schizophrenia is if the illness doesn't kill you the medication you take for it might. I have to applaud Lindsey and Margaret for being brave enough to tell this fascinating and tragic story of their family.
Today's Walk
This one is called Water and Friendship and is from Ohara-Isumi city in Japan. The air is perfumed sweet with the blossoms. |
Friday, May 21, 2021
The Long Petal Of The Sea
Famous author Isabelle Allende wrote The Long Petal Of The Sea. I have read other books by her. This story is historical fiction about dictatorships. Starting out in Spain during the Civil War in the 1930's. After serving in the war as a physician, Victor flees the country with his brother's widow, Roser, who is pregnant. They sail on the SS Winnipeg which was hired by a poet, Pablo Neruda, to take refugees to Chile. To gain entrance on the ship, Victor has to marry Roser. Both of them agree this is an arrangement to get to Chile and not a real marriage. They plan on getting divorced in the future. Victor and Roser and her son thrive in Chile; Victor as a physician and Roser as a pianist and music teacher. In 1973 the United States supported a coup against the leader of Chile (who happens to be the author's godfather). Another dictator takes over and the family has to flee to Venezuela. The story of Victor and Roser demonstrates resilience in the face of adversity over many decades. The story also reminds me of what an easy life I have lived so far. I was sad to come to the end of it.
Thursday, May 20, 2021
Dear Girls
Ali Wong wrote Dear Girls; Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets, And Advice For Living Your Best Life. She wrote the book for her two girls which I think is a pretty fine idea. She writes about her own wild childhood and how she trapped their father. She writes about working as a female stand up comic. She writes about being Asian. She writes about prejudice and misogamy. She writes about sex and she is very funny. She had me laughing out loud. I don't think she should let her girls read this book until they are 22 because she writes very explicitly. This was some really raw stuff. I listened to the audio book. I usually drive or walk as I listen to books. I had to actually turn my phone off while walking a busy section of the lake walk in Duluth because I didn't want children listening to some of the things that were coming out of her mouth. I mean, it's good to be open about sexuality but, wow. If vulgarity offends you, this is not the book for you.
Wednesday, May 19, 2021
Lab Girl
Lab Girl is a tremendous non-fiction book written by Hope Jahren. Hope is an award winning geobiologist who grew up loving science. She grew up in Minnesota near the border with Iowa. Her father was a science teacher at a community college and he let her play in his lab. She loved playing in the lab and eventually made it her career. In the book she talks about her studies and her career. She has created labs in Georgia, California, Norway and also in Hawaii which is where she lives now. She met another science student at her first job as a professor named Bill. She and Bill hit it off and she has kept him employed in her labs. Their relationship is like a very close brother and sister. She also has a husband and a child. The book mixes information from her life with information about plants. She starts out with the seeds, goes on to the roots and the stem and the leaves. I can tell from her writing that plants are her passion and it is a joy to read the work of someone who is so enthusiastic.
Tuesday, May 18, 2021
Solutions And Other Problems
Years ago I read Hyperbole And A Half by Allie Brosh. I also followed her blog by the same name. She is a graphic artist who does her drawings with the Paint program. She is extremely funny so I borrowed her newest book, Solutions And Other Problems as soon as I saw it was available. This book is part humor and part memoir. The author dealt with some pretty tough issues after her first book was released. She quit her blog and fell silent for many years. Her sister completed suicide, she got divorced, and she also had a health scare. Life isn't always fun. With her graphic art she takes everyday moments and makes them relatable and poignant. She also writes about her childhood and, for instance, that time she duct taped her girlfriend to an office chair in the driveway when they were both five years old. Hilarious. I loved this book. I think reading the hard cover book would have been better than reading it on my phone because I would be able to see the illustrations better.
Monday, May 17, 2021
In Search Of April Raintree
Beatrice Mosionier is an indigenous Canadian author and she wrote In Search of April Raintree. This book is common in Canadian high schools and is often required reading in Canadian literature courses. This is a historical fiction and a retelling of the author's childhood growing up in Norway House, Manitoba, north of Lake Winnipeg. She did not have a happy childhood in the 1970's and 1980's. April and her younger sister, Cheryl, are taken away from their parents and delivered to two different foster homes. While April favors her mother's looks and could pass for white, Cheryl looks like their father and she looks like a Metis. The two sisters are all they have in the world. The story was very powerful.
Warm Day
Sunday, May 16, 2021
Air And Water Quality
Saturday, May 15, 2021
Geology Of The North Shore
This morning I drove 30 minutes to the Flood Bay Way Side Rest which is just east of Two Harbors and the Superior Shores resort. I was here for another field trip with the Master Naturalist convention. I was glad I brought my raincoat because we did get some very light rain. It was so nice to see people that I only see once a year at these conventions. Right away we learned that Two Harbors actually has three harbors. Flood Bay harbor faces northeast so it gets the least protection from the strong winds. This bay does have a good sized wetland with it which is sliced down the middle by Highway 61. We learned how the wetlands help Lake Superior and a little about the history of the Ojibway and Dakotah people who lived here prior to European settlement. After walking back from the wetland we returned to the shore and learned about the Lake Superior from the perspective of a limnologist. She told us how the introduction of rainbow trout has decimated the populations of native brook trout. The sea lamphrey problem has pretty much cleared up now. Lake Superior does have a problem with zebra mussels but the lake is so cold the zebra mussels don't stand a chance of thriving here. We heard from a professor of geology and she pointed out the magma flows that form every point of land sticking out into Lake Superior. Each of us received a rock collection box with labeled rocks already in it and a copy of Sparky Stensaas' book Rock Pickers Guide to Lake Superior's North Shore. We had time to pick rocks and ask her to identify them. Lastly we had a rock skipping contest. I did manage to skip a few rocks and win a prize (everybody won a prize of a bag of M and M's).
Friday, May 14, 2021
Botany Of The North Shore
This clump of white flowers in the rock is called Virginia Sassafraxe. |
This is a variety of sundew which is a carnivorous plant. |
Thursday, May 13, 2021
The Brief Wondrous Life Of Oscar Wao
The Brief Wondrous Life Of Oscar Wao was written by Junot Diaz. The author won the Pulitzer Prize for fiction in 2008 for this book. The author and Oscar were born in the Dominican Republic. The story is about Oscar but also about Oscar's mother and Oscar's Grandfather. Oscar's Grandfather was a physician. The Grandfather was an acquaintance of the dictator El Jefe. In some respects this book has historical facts about the Dominican Republic. When El Jefe asks Oscar's Grandfather to bring his daughters to a political event, the Grandfather does not obey because he knows they will be raped. El Jefe eventually tortures and kills him. Throughout the book a Dominican curse known as fuku. The curse affects the lives of the Grandfather, Oscar's mother, and Oscar himself. Oscar grows up in New Jersey with his older sister Lola. Oscar is overweight and nerdy. He enjoys reading and science fiction. He lacks the social skills to make friends or attract women. The book is narrated by Junior who dated Lola and was Oscar's roommate when they were in college. Where Junior has the typical Dominican machismo, Oscar is the complete opposite. Oscar treats women with respect. Oscar and Lola go back to the Dominican Republic to visit their Grandmother. I enjoyed this book. I listened to the audio version. Sometimes the language went from English to Spanglish to Spanish so I didn't understand all of it. I enjoyed the characters in the book and the descriptions of the neighborhoods in New Jersey and the Dominican Republic.
Stream Monitoring
Wednesday, May 12, 2021
The Picture Of Dorian Gray
Oscar Wilde wrote The Picture Of Dorian Gray. Published in 1890 this story was first published in a magazine and heavily edited. Yet the story shocked people and was highly criticized as indecent. This is the only novel Wilde ever wrote. Most of his other work was writing poems or plays. In this story Dorian Gray is a 17 year old man when his likeness is painted. Dorian is a handsome, impressionable and narcissistic young man. Fearful of loosing his good looks he decides he would prefer that his portrait grow old instead of him. And it works. The portrait changes. When Dorian breaks a young girl's heart, the portrait gets a sneer on it's face. Every sin Dorian commits is evident on the portrait. Dorian has a friend, Lord Henry, who is hedonistic so Dorian follows his path and ends up leading a sad and lonely life. This was an interesting novel about villains and evil and corruption. I think the best part about it, besides the villains, was the surprising ending.
Lake Phalen
Today I had a pleasant walk around Lake Phalen. Some of my walk was on a tarred path and some of it was on the road.
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